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Reflections on a Challenging Breastfeeding Year A post caught my eye on the Huff today. It’s titled  Mom’s Passionate Post Is For Every Mother Who Has Struggled To Breastfeed  and at first look, a soft flood of compassionate tenderness welled up in my chest. I took a deep soft breath and remembered. Most of my breastfeeding hardship happened in a rocking chair. It was a big, beautiful wooden rocker that my daughter’s father surprised me with just two weeks before her birth. I spotted it at an antique shop, but it was out of our budget. He worked something out with the guy a few days later and suddenly, it was in my living room. I was over the moon. Here I would sit, rock and coo over my little boy (who turned out to be a gorgeous girl). I would nurse “on demand” and revel in the amazingness of my body, of my baby, of breastmilk’s incredible magic and value. I looked at the rocker and I saw the bliss-to-be. Six weeks later, that bliss was barely to be found. When my...
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Holiday SurThrival Index for New Parents So, you’re a new parent. You have a new baby. This is your first holiday season together.  Yay!  It’s a busy time. You’re new to this gig. You’ve got feedings and travel and family and life and laundry and… Whoa.  Nothing like a big first holiday season to test your stamina, and your mama bear instincts. We have ALL been there. So, allow us to offer a bit of support.  Take a moment to consider your game plan ahead of time so that that the joy of the season is more joy and less stress for all. Here are some of the articles we’ve found helpful in caring for baby and self over the holidays (chocked full of helpful tips that you can apply year-round, really). Enjoy! Food Around here, we herald mom as Queen of Feed. However you want to feed your baby, mama, is your beautiful choice and right. Here are a few resources to help you navigate the holidays when breastfeeding, starting solids and/or with food allergie...
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The Story of Mission "I grew up in southern California, just a few minutes down the road from the Mission in San Juan Capistrano. I regularly walked by the beautiful grounds as a child, did countless reports on it's history and could recite the story of the swallows for anyone who asked. Not until I reached adulthood did I truly realize how much I had taken this wondrous place for granted. When Gabby designed this print I was immediately filled with nostalgia thinking of the textured walls and crumbling buildings where the swallows return to each year.    http://babyproduct24.com/best-target-baby-carrier After naming the print, I had the privilege of photographing my cousin Erika and her sweet daughter Iris (who live in SJC around the corner from the Mission) when I was home visiting. We spent the day under blue skies laughing and reminiscing about when we were Iris' age, skipping around the mission without a care...
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Traveling Alone with a Baby, Lessons Learned, Flight Tips Enclosed I just got back from a fairly whirl-windy visit to the states with my 14 month old and though it wasn't easy, I did find a few ways to to make it as low-key as possible (and made a few mistakes I won't be repeating). While it can be a challenge to navigate all the ups and downs of air travel with a little one, it can be a real joy and special bonding time, too. Here is a breakdown of some what-to-expects and how-to-prepares: 1. Notice the kindness of others I've never been so impressed by how naturally kind most people are as when I've been traveling alone with my baby. Not only did I get a lot of big softy smiles and coos at my little one snugged up to me in our  Boba Carrier , but I got offers left and right for help with everything from my carry on bags to opening my dinner entrĂ©e (international flights still serve dinner!) - no kidding. Also, airline staff may likely go out of their way to ...
Best Baby Carriers 2017 Babies love being held close to mom or dad, feeling the warm comfort of their chest and the gentle rhythm of their breathing and heartbeat. But unless you're Ronda Rousey or Mark Wahlberg, your arms and shoulders are going to get very tired from lugging around a growing baby all day. That's where the soft-structured baby carrier comes in! Each year, there are several new entrants into the baby carrier market, making it harder to make an informed decision about which ones are best for you and your baby. We took 17 popular baby carriers, some having been around for over a decade (like the BabyBjorn and ERGO) and some being relative newcomers to the market (like the Mother Nest and Tula), and put them to the test. They ranged in price from about $35 to $150, and in general price tended to correlate with quality. All of the carriers were purchased by us, we did  not accept any freebies  to ensure our reviews were honest and unbiased. We evaluated each...
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Here are the best baby gates of 2017, for the top or bottom of stairs. The top of the stairs is a difficult and dangerous location, and there are only a few top-of-stairs gates that we recommend. Here are our criteria: no step-over bar along the bottom edge (you do not want tripping at the top of your stairs!), can be attached to a variety of configurations (railing posts, walls with moldings), wide enough to fit a variety of stair configurations, doesn't automatically swing shut (so there is no risk of the gate swinging and bumping you or a baby in the back, risking a fall down the stairs), is easy to use in our hands-on testing, and well-reviewed by parents. 1. Kidco Safeway Safety Gate for top-of-stairs.   Usually about $45. This is the best all-around top of the stairs baby gate for 2017. We also think it deserves a spot on the doorway list above, but this is specifically designed for the top of the stairs so we'll keep it here.  The Kidco gate meets a lot of the crit...